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January 07, 2026 - Present
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Friday, May 22, 2026

Death of Terry Hempel

I recieved word from Joe Rinker that The Late Bill Hempel's wife, Terry, passed yesterday morning at 6:00 a.m.

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Wednesday, May 15, 2026

Death of James R. Parrish
Jim Parrish

James Randall Parrish, born August 10, 1945, in Dallas, Texas, passed away on April 8, 2026.

James was raised in Dallas and graduated from South Oak Cliff High School in 1963. A true patriot, he served in the United States Navy during the Vietnam era, and then went on to continue his education at University of Texas Dallas. His commitment to service didn’t end after the Navy — he continued dedicating his life to this country through a 27-year career with the United States Departmenmt of State. That work took him all over the world, but no matter where he went, he carried his values, his work ethic, and his love for his country with him. He retired with high honors and the respect of those he served alongside.

James was a loving father, a proud grandfather, and someone who deeply valued the people closest to him. He loved being outdoors, whether that meant simply enjoying the fresh air or spending time in nature doing what brought him peace. He was intelligent, generous, and always knew how to have a good time.

He moved back to Texas in 2005 and made his home in Gunter, where he spent his later years surrounded by family and the place he always considered home.

James was preceded in death by his father, Bud J. Parrish; his mother, Estelle Parrish; his son, James Randall Parrish II; and five brothers and sisters.

He is survived by his daughters; Jenna and her husband Britt, Tandy and her husband Raymond. He also leaves behind his grandchildren Jacob, Alli, Kendall, and his great-grandson Luca, all of whom he loved deeply.

He will be remembered for his service, his strength, and for the good times that he had with those he loved.

A graveside service was held at Laurel Land Memorial Park - Dallas, 6300 S. R.L. Thornton Frwy., Dallas, TX 75232, US, on April 14, 2026, from 1:00 pm to 1:30pm.

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Wednesday, May 15, 2026

Death of Frank Baldwin

I received the following from Fran Baldwin:

It is with great sadness to report that Frank passed away on 12/24/2025 making a very sad holiday! He is greatly missed by his family!

Sincerely
Fran Baldwin

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Wednesday, February 25, 2026

Today I received a picture from Judy Chidester showing Joe Rinker, Stu Branch and her on a reecent visit to Mesa, AZ.

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Wednesday, February 25, 2026

I received word from Tootsie Sterenberg that she moved to Lagos, Portugal in August of 2023. She furnished her new contact information. Her email addrerss is unchanged.

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Sunday, February 22, 2026

Received The following from Phil Tinney:

Back in about 1966, State Magazine came out with an article from probably the director general of personnel at the time, and tried to portray us as not quite on a level with others in our missions. Many of us found it to be pretty inaccurate of our talent, dedication and overall contributions to the Foreign Service that we had embraced as a life-long career. The article while well-meaning, certainly portrayed us as separate from others in the Foreign Service and needing help. Here is the article from the bad old days, I will follow it with a few excerpt photos that I used to lampoon the entire article. I won't bore you with all of them, but I took the entire article and found appropriate (or maybe non-appropriate pics) to match the words.

Enjoy
Phil

Communcations Personnel Take Pride in Their Work

In the June issue of the NEWS LETTER, I discussed the proper treatment of secretaries. Communications personel make up another Support Staff functional staff group whose work and problems sometimes are not sufficiently understood or appreciated by other Foreign Service personnel.

A rapid, accurate, and secure communcations system is essential to the Department and Foreign Service Personnel manning the system must be dedicated and competent. To a degree unique even to the Foreigh Service, they must be prepared to subjugate their personal desires and plans to the requirements of their job.

Expediting important messages to and from the post is exciting business, and communications personel can take great pride in the essentiality of their task. The vital nature of their responsibilites, however, sometimes requires them to work overtime, irregular hours, or both. Moreover, some of their tasks can be tiresome, repetitive, routine and dirty. Sometimes their work is dangerous, when for example, during crisis conditions personel must go to the airport for pouch exchages or report to an embassy which may literally be under siege.

Given all of the above, it behooves other members of the staff to be sympathetic to the unique problems of the C & R personnel and make every effort to include them in the normal social life of the post. The equitable distribution of work schedules and shifts should permit communications personnel to share with others the attractions of Foreign Service life, such as the opportunity to become acquainted with the host country and its people. Supervisors, togehter with the posts' admimistrative sections, should, to the extent possible, insure that sufficient funds are set aside to permit compensation for anticipated overtime work.

For example,they are expected to keep the files in good order and be able to retrieve material rapidly, but they handle hundreds of documents and cannot be expected to produce instantly a vaguely identified paper. The economic officer, or his secretary, is not justified in criticizing the file clerk for being unable to locate immediately "that telegram we sent a few months ago about that AID project up north."

Communications personnel deserve a vote of thanks, or, at the very least, understanding consideration for the jobs they do and the unique problems they face. They belong to a support organization, charged with the responsibility to provide vital services. Maintaining files and punching tapes are not ends in themselves, as every communicator will agree, but they are essential to the functioning of every Foreign Service post.

As I sugested to the secretaries, those C & R personnel who feel this article could have a salutary effect might bring it to the attention of their supervisors and other members of the staff at their posts.

Theodere A. Trembley, Director Supppot Staff Personnel Program
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Thursday, January 15, 2026

Rob Robinson Rob Robinson
Death of Robbie Robinson

I received the following email message from Dan Robinson, Robbie's son:

After a long, tough year battling numerous health issues, I'm sorry to report that my dad, Rob Robinson, passed away last night. He was resting peacefully at the end, and I'm confident that he's in a better place today than he was yesterday.

Robert Wayne Robinson was born on May 18, 1937, in McLemoresville, Tennessee. Dad graduated from high school in 1955, enlisted in the U.S. Navy in 1956, served honorably until 1960, then signed on with the U.S. Department of State as a communications technician in 1962 or 1963. Many of you knew him far longer than I did, dating back to his days in the Navy and his early days in the foreign service. By all accounts, dad was a good colleague and a great friend to all those he knew and worked with. I want to thank you all for your friendship to him over these many years. He often spoke fondly about all of you and the positive influence that knowing each of you had on his life.

Dad was not a religious man, and, as such, there are no plans for a funeral or a memorial service of any kind. Dad's final wishes were to be cremated and for his remains to be entombed in the columbarium at Arlington National Cemetery. I'll be taking steps over the next few weeks/months to see that his wishes are realized, and will let you all know when it's done.

I will continue to maintain dad's email account (kj4kms@comcast.net) for the time being, but I plan to cancel it once he's placed at Arlington. In the meantime, please contact me here if you have any thoughts or questions regarding my dad.

I attached a couple of pics I took of my dad back in April, 2024, the last time we grilled out together. Dad always enjoyed chewing on a cigar, drinking a Yeungling beer, and grilling some steaks or ribs out in the backyard. This is how I'll remember him best. Hope you all do too.

Best regars

Dan Robinson

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Saturday, January 10, 2026

Received a new email address and other contact info for one of or longtime retirees, Dave Neuser!

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Thursday, January 8, 2026

Recently I received an email from a Jessica Fisher with what she describes as one of the most comprehensive online resources on Mesothelioma. With the death of Harry from mesothelioma, I have decided to add a link to this web site under "Useful Information". It may also be found here, Senior Care and Mesothelioma Support

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Wednesday, January 7, 2026

Harry Lumley
Death of Harry Lumley

I received word from Charles Wisecarver that he received word from Harry's son, Dustin that his father had passed away on November 21, 2025 after a LONG hard fought battle against pleural mesothelioma.

His message to Charlie is here quoted:

Dear family and friends of Harry Lumley

On the afdternoon of 21 November my father lost his intense, hard fought battle against pleural mesothelioma, an aggressive form of lung cancer emanating from asbestos exposure over 57 years aago, Diagnosed first in March of 2025, the speed and ferociousness of the affliction accelerated in recent weeks, leaving us in a state of disbelief that he has gone so soon. Dad passed surrounded by Mom, his granddaughter Helena and myself.

As he departed, we celebrated his kindness, devotion, wisdom and his innate ability to deeply inspire those around him. Music, photos and stories from incredible experiences tegether were shared.

My Mom, the other half of a parental super-duo, remains deeply grateful for 58 wonderfull, loving and adventurous years together. For our family, he continues to be our role model and daily inspiration to become a better human.

Upon his wishes, Dad will be laid to rest amongst the beautiful red rocks of Sedona, Arizona in a simple, spiratual yet natural graveside burial - The logistics and permits pending.

Harry Wayne Lumley
July 31, 1947 — November 21, 2025
Cave Creek

Harry W. Lumley, 78, died November 21 in Scottsdale, Arizona. He was born in Topeka, Kansas, and in his youth, became the lead singer and organ player for the Lost Souls band. Lumley graduated from Washburn University, Topeka, Kansas, and afterwards worked for the State of Kansas as Head of Information Resource Management until he began his State Department Foreign Service career in Mexico City in 1991. After two years in Mexico, he then served at U.S. Embassies in Morocco, Singapore, Italy and Russia - the latter three as Information Management Officer. Harry's Washington assignments included serving as Deputy Executive Director, Director of Customer Service and Director of Information Technology Infrastructure. He completed his career as a Senior Foreign Service Officer in 2011, retiring after 22 years of service to Cave Creek, Arizona, where he and his wife were active in local hiking, biking and pickleball. He continued to pursue interests in technology, international affairs and nature conservation, doing volunteer work for the Desert Foothills Land Trust, Sierra Club Saguaro Group, Spur Cross Conservation Area, and Nature Conservancy.

He also had a strong passion for travelling and rediscovering familial roots. Lumley is survived by his wife of 58 years, Rebecca, of Cave Creek, AZ, his son, Dustin Lumley, living in Copenhagen, Denmark, and his two granddaughters and one grandson. He is further survived by two siblings, Alberta Huber and Linda Naugle, both of Topeka, Kansas.

We have a new member, Richard Scott Hewitt! Welcome aboard Scott!